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When I teach a lesson on responsibility, even in kindergarten, children know immediately what they are responsible for. Here are some of the many things they suggest: pets, younger brothers and sisters, their toys, their behavior, their homework, making their bed, cleaning up their room, brushing their teeth, taking out the trash and eating healthy food. Sometimes fulfilling responsibilities can follow the Law of Pinocchio. In other words, just as Pinocchio’s nose grew longer immediately each time he lied, sometimes children receive a positive response or affirmation or reward immediately upon completing the task. More likely though, responsibilities follow the Law of the Harvest. In other words, the results of responsible behavior or decisions are not immediately obvious. Eating a healthy snack when we could have eaten a candy bar doesn’t often have an immediate reward. Completing homework when we could have watched television isn’t always immediately satisfying. When I ask young children, why they do the things they do that are responsible, they usually respond with something like, “So I don’t get into trouble.” or “So I can play afterwards”. Older children begin to understand consequences that occur much later than the original event.
Here’s a fun way to talk about responsibility, consequences while tapping into children’s imagination as well. Judith Viorst has written a delightful book of poems entitled: If I Were in Charge of the World. The title is taken from a poem in the book that begins like this:
If I were in charge of the world
I’d cancel oatmeal,
Allergy shots and also
I like to read the poem to students and then have them write their own poem about what the world would be like if they were in charge of the world. What would they cancel or what would they make sure there was more of? What would they change and what would they do away with?
We follow up with a discussion about what would be the consequences of the changes they’d like to see. Would it be a better world? Is it something they really could and should change? Would it make a difference? What are they in charge of ? Are we all in some ways in charge of our own piece of the world? It makes for a fun and lively discussion.
It’s also a good question for adults don’t you think? What would you do if you were in charge of the world?